We pray for you personally Susheila. We pray God’s strength and understanding, knowledge and discernment for you while you turn to see just what you really need to do concerning this. Your spouse happens to be permitting the enemy of y our faith to pull him around like a puppet to accomplish the putting in a bid of this devil. My heart grieves to you as well as your household. I experienced a cousin (who passed away a period of time ago) who had been pulled around in other sinful methods. I recall we’d a deep, deep talk once where he admitted which he had ruined their life. He had been therefore regretful. And yet he didn’t begin to see the use within breaking free. He stated that all things considered those many years of leading a life that is addicted what good wouldn’t it do in order to get rid at this stage? We told him that greater tragedy will be if he lived yet another time in this life style and not gave himself an opportunity as he could. Unfortunately, their previous addictions trapped with him so he didn’t live considerably longer. But we thank Jesus before he died that he truly put his hand into God’s.